Am i intimidating to women quiz
28-Dec-2019 22:42
In American culture, movies and media, there is a strong push for an archetype of the “strong woman.” How many movies have you seen where a woman acts like a complete pain in the ass the whole movie and the protagonist dude chases her around the entire movie like a puppy dog?I’ve even seen it in a children’s movie (I think it was “How to Train Your Dragon”). Guys with any power to choose will actively Why would a guy want to choose a negative influence in his life?Don’t do so much to gain the first that you sacrifice the second.You’re not mean, not egotistical, not cold and uncaring.JOE: I think that your situation is a good one to be in – as you said, those traits that could come across as intimidating are all positive ones.Instead, just realize that, if you want men to pursue you, you’ll need to wait for a bolder, more confident man to appear in your life, but you’ll need to realize that such a man will also likely be able to easily get his choice of women who are less ambitious/organized/etc.You’re considered the “hot” friend in the group, and you’re still single.You’re single because of the fact that everyone’s too petrified to actually talk to you.
If you see him doing this, he’s probably too intimidated to ask you out.
Think about how many tropes you’ve heard involving men who get shy, stutter, and stammer around beautiful, intelligent and ambitious women — it happens a lot more than you think.
Here are some signs that you’re a bit too badass for many men to handle: Guys tend to look at you, but won’t approach you.
In fact, what I talk about goes for men and for women. And I can tell you – they don’t walk around all day thinking about how they’re alpha. You can have your desires met without demanding them.
What I’m advocating in this post is to identify behaviors masquerading as admirable traits. If you feel that you are attracting emotionally unavailable men to you, I suspect it could have to do with some of these behaviors. If you have any behaviors that could be construed as bullying, demanding, disagreeable or controlling, then you’ll do best to lay them to rest. And you can have compliance without intimidating the other person. I bring this up because often times when a woman tells me she’s an “alpha female” or “strong independent woman,” alarm bells go off in my head.