Freshman in college dating senior in college
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I wasn't allowed to "car date" until I was 16 and that rule also went for my daughters. The problem is the wimpy parents who don't say....if shes good enough to act like your a family(sex) then shes good enough to be in a family.Also, a senior would be more likely to have access to alcohol and attend parties where there would be alcohol. I think kids should date kids in their own age group - a year older at most. Parents are wimps because they think if she doesn't get a disease or pregnant everything is ok..She started dating a boy the day she graduated from middle school.We had a rule that she couldn't date more than a grade up, then she started dating a home schooled boy and that rule didn't make any sense.The issue isn't the physical age gap but the mental age gap. Generally, there are vast differences in the mental states of people at those ages.A high school freshman is generally way different from a high school senior. The mental gap between a fifteen and seventeen-year-old is vastly different than that of a twenty-two and twenty-four-year-old.I will respond as a caring dad and u will feel like an idiot...... Before she is married ALL men in her life ANSWER to ME..shes married , men answer to her husband..on an outing you will represent good worthiness to yourselves as a couple in safe, enjoyable and positive contribution to life..thats the doorbell u just rang d) Thats the deal..is a person who rightfully desires a positive life.Absolutely no overnighters, as well rules in dating schedual e) have fun and I hope we can be friends.
This society is going NO WHERE ...a revolving dead end ...relationship disaster....everybody knows that....In some May/December relationships (whether it be with teens or full fledged adults) that difference in experience becomes a big issue. Of course there are some freshmen boys who are having sex.The younger person really needs an equal in order to grow into their fullest version of themselves, a peer who is going through the same things where they can make mistakes side by side. The older person has already made those mistakes and is more likely to try to impart wisdom and guide or assist (with no harmful intent) the younger person's choices rather than be a true peer and equal. However as you go through the grades, the percentage of "experienced" people is going to rise.As a general rule, I think that age gap is too much at that particular age.
Yes, you can argue that maybe the senior is young and the freshman is old, but then the opposite could be true... In any case, for argument's sake, we'll say 3 years.Just based on my own experience, I generally saw those pairings consist of an older guy and a younger girl more often than a senior girl dating a freshman boy.