Japanese men dating western women
Definitely call people out on racism, but try to be open-minded and accept reality.i think you are generalizing.
Maybe none of the asian girls you have met so far have been to your liking, but once you are in a country full of Asian women, you will see a variety of different traits.
Well, that wouldn't be as easy in an Asian country.
Would she be racist for wanting to find out if there's a good Western dating scene?
While it depends on the person, and not all Japanese men are the same the average Japanese man is viewed in such a way and is portrayed as so in popular media.
Racism is alive and well but you've really got to ask yourself if it's racist to have a preference for people who look a certain way or act a certain way.I don't know if there is an answer I "want" to hear.I guess I am just recognizing that most Single Western Men in this situation would want to date Japanese Women. I mean there are some western women around but Japan is a shitty country to be a woman in so most of them do not want to stick around.I was very much looking forward to getting into the Bay Area dating scene, although this new assignment would obviously change that.
I've read some about the Dating Scene for Westerners in Tokyo-- TLDR seems to be: easy for a Western Man to date Japanese Women, difficult for a Western Woman to date Japanese Men.There are many kinds of Japanese guys who are also very assertive and very direct when it comes to women. Please keep in mind that I will only use “average” because it’s convenient to use when referring to an image.