Younger guy dating older men
And she agrees with me about the attraction of younger men. I’m also someone whose cultural reference points are “before my time”, so I find it surprisingly easy to find common cultural ground with older women. When you were young they were exciting, vibrant and a step into a world you didn’t know much about. Older men in relationships with much younger women? And we’re progressing from tweets to DMs, to the messaging app Telegram, to phone calls… (Not about the world imploding.) They are funny, intelligent men – there is no setting the dial low… Until you step into daylight and see their skin.’ My friend Michelle, 51, from London, is dating a 37-year-old man. ‘A woman who’s seen it all and cuts through the bullshit is far more interesting, open and intellectually stimulating to me. HE’S GOT A MUMMY FIXATION AND SHE, THE PREDATORY BITCH, IS SLEAZY AND SLY. ‘They write, work in film, dabble in music and are super-interesting. Men of my generation pay lip service to the idea of liking strong women but tend to fall back on stereotypes and expect to be mothered. Younger men are also less sexually inhibited and more adventurous in bed. I got out my little black book (old-skool) and remembered none of my exes are talking to me – so I asked online instead. These pore-less, firm-jawed men are clever, successful, creative, and absurdly hot.‘I guess there are people who fall in love with an older woman, and those whose kink is older women. They’re naïve and they want a more experienced woman?
There may be something predatory about it as well, John suggests.And this [their attractiveness] often comes with an attitude that is very attractive too.